I am a single, independent Gemini woman living in Ventura County, CA. This is not meant to be some life changing, awe inspiring dating advice blog; it is just me and my random, some times contradicting thoughts and points of view on dating while living in the suburbs. It's not always easy or fun but this is my life and I hope that my experiences are entertaining or informative; if even just to get to know myself better through the therapeutics of writing, I will continue and write when I feel the need to....I've been at this for YEARS now and have yet to find my prince charming, so follow me through my life as being SINGLE IN THE SUBURBS and be glad you're not me! ;)

March 3, 2011

3/2/2011: Back on the horse?

Nope!
I took the chance on another one and it was horrible!
Once again a man states he is Caucasian, no mention of another heritage or peak into his real life/roots in any of the emails we exchanged, even though I had asked, so I was to assume everything he told me was truth...WRONG!
Not that I have anything against other ethnicity's, but I know I am not attracted sexually to anything other then the white boys...people always say I should give something else a chance, but I just know it won't work!...Case in point:
I meet him and he looked nothing like his images and was straight from Isreal just a couple months ago. VERY broken English and I had to explain everything I said. Already annoyed and wanting to run, I ask if he wants to get a coffee or drink. He declines and states he has no money. Not even money for a coffee? Nice. I drove about an hour to meet with this guy (I had nothin else to do and love the Grove anyhow, so however it went, I was looking forward to just hanging out at the Grove) and he couldn't even buy me a tea!
His idea of a date was walking in circles around the Grove (we did it 3 times before I got fed up), and it was raining! I asked multiple times to go somewhere where I wasn't getting rained on, each time he stated he loved the rain and obviously didn't care what I wanted. He also was shopping for sunglasses for himself; he would stop at each kiosk or store that may have had sunglasses. He didn't buy any cause, he had no money...but he thought it was okay to do that, which I found odd.
He was also texting most of the time, stopping just long enough to ask another lame question about who I was and then didn't listen to the answers. I started making up stuff just to see if he was listening or understood me. LOL
When I finally had enough of the rain and him, I told him I was bored and wanted to get a drink by myself. I shook his hand and bidded him adieu.
I was soaking wet from the rain, my boot heel broke and I walked into the nearest lounge for a glass of wine. The bartender took pity on me and poured me 2 free glasses, so I stayed for dinner. It ended up being a fun date with myself!
I don't know why I put myself through this dating thing...I think I need to focus on making single girlfriends so I could meet guys through friends instead!