I am a single, independent Gemini woman living in Ventura County, CA. This is not meant to be some life changing, awe inspiring dating advice blog; it is just me and my random, some times contradicting thoughts and points of view on dating while living in the suburbs. It's not always easy or fun but this is my life and I hope that my experiences are entertaining or informative; if even just to get to know myself better through the therapeutics of writing, I will continue and write when I feel the need to....I've been at this for YEARS now and have yet to find my prince charming, so follow me through my life as being SINGLE IN THE SUBURBS and be glad you're not me! ;)

June 4, 2010

6/03/2010: Mr. Playtime

Thursday

What is with the single guys in this area and their lack of wanting anything meaningful? Just when you think you have a connection with someone they spring the whole play time thing at you! Ugh. So frustrating!
So I met this guy at work last week and we exchanged some witty banter and glances. He gave me his business card and told me to hit him up sometime...so I did just that. We spent half the day texting back and fourth (yes, that is exceptable in this day and age!)...and when it came to the topic of what he is looking for, he states he just wants to have some fun and play....which means SEX.
Just when I thought he was a good guy and a potential date too...
I am not looking to "play". I am no longer 21 or 25 for that matter. You "play" in college and just after. Not when you are nearly 30 or in his case over 30. This world and the selfish attitude of my generation sucks! Those who are still single are so set in their ways and don't want to change their life in any shape or fashion!
I wish I was back in the 50s where it appears that it was much easier. Granted, the womans place was in the kitchen, but I am okay with that! LOL
Mr. Playtime is a "Technical lifestyle specialist", whatever that means and lives at home; but he wanted to be sure I knew it was a very large home on the top of the hills in Calabasas and the family had people who worked for them...like I care if you have servants? How about you grow up and take a girl on a date rather than inviting her to your mommy and daddys home for a play date?! Jerk.

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