I am a single, independent Gemini woman living in Ventura County, CA. This is not meant to be some life changing, awe inspiring dating advice blog; it is just me and my random, some times contradicting thoughts and points of view on dating while living in the suburbs. It's not always easy or fun but this is my life and I hope that my experiences are entertaining or informative; if even just to get to know myself better through the therapeutics of writing, I will continue and write when I feel the need to....I've been at this for YEARS now and have yet to find my prince charming, so follow me through my life as being SINGLE IN THE SUBURBS and be glad you're not me! ;)

April 26, 2011

4/21/11: Mr. AVN

Setup through a friends girlfriend, I had met Mr. AVN twice before our date at his place of employment. Seemingly a great guy with great references. We decided to meet for a late dinner near his place about 20 minutes from me. Before I leave he let's me know by text that he will be wearing a suit jacket and thought it would be nice if I were to wear tight jeans, black shirt and black boots with a heel. Kinda odd but I go with it. I drive and immediately as I exit my parked car, he drives up and I get in his car. (This was okay only cause I knew his friends and had met him prior to our date...otherwise, getting in his car or even meeting at his place would be a big no no)
The restaurant he was planning on, closed in literally 5 minutes, so he drives like a bat outa hell to get there.
Now, I am the type of person who would NEVER show up anywhere that was about to close, so I am already uncomfortable but it's his thing, so whatever. We get there and the staff was obviously annoyed with us, but they can't deny us. Turned out the server knew him so it wasn't terrible. Dinner was amazing...he bought, including a bottle of wine. After dinner we decide to go back to his place to watch what was left of my Thursday night comedy shows (30Rock). This is where the night got interesting.
He spoke of his high heel fetish and wanted to know about every pair of heels I own in detail...then after 30Rock ended I was about to leave when he turns on the AVN awards, which for those that are unaware is the Adult Video Network...meaning porn awards. I was laughing hysterically at first thinking he was kidding, but oh no...he wanted to watch! He asked to cuddle and tried to kiss me a couple times but I pulled away....he got a peck and begged for more, then offered up some clothes to get me comfy. He tried to take my boots off at least three times (I am not into that foot fetish thing), and I denied him on all of the above. Around 11:20 or so, I left....
Then....the following day I find out he had been texting my girlfriend that he had met the night prior to our date through me. Thankfully I have an awesome friend who first told me he contacted her thru facebook and he asked her to text him. I told her it was no biggie to me if she talked to him and neither of us really thought much of it. She asked how our date was and he said "Just two friends having dinner!"....that's not the impression he gave me! and then he asked her to go out that following night. That's when we knew he was trying to play us both. Obviously as friends we talk...retard!
I think once he knew we both knew he knew he was caught and stopped texting both of us!...
NEXT!

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