I am a single, independent Gemini woman living in Ventura County, CA. This is not meant to be some life changing, awe inspiring dating advice blog; it is just me and my random, some times contradicting thoughts and points of view on dating while living in the suburbs. It's not always easy or fun but this is my life and I hope that my experiences are entertaining or informative; if even just to get to know myself better through the therapeutics of writing, I will continue and write when I feel the need to....I've been at this for YEARS now and have yet to find my prince charming, so follow me through my life as being SINGLE IN THE SUBURBS and be glad you're not me! ;)

May 11, 2010

5/08/2010: Mr. Lover-Boy

Saturday

Location: Home

guys, whether you THINK you feel it or not...it is NOT okay to confess your love after meeting someone through SKYPE for a half hour conversation. Although it is a slight ego boaster to feel like you are so amazing someone can fall that hard and that fast, it is not reality and should be reviewed with severe caution.
PS: SKYPE is NOT a first date!

For those of you wondering, I met another guy from online a couple nights ago and while he said he would be willing to meet me in person and drive up from Manhattan Beach, he wanted to SKYPE first. (The only REAL reason a guy says that is to make sure I look like my pics first)
It was late, I was not made up and was in sweats but I made the sacrafice for a future free meal. (kidding :P, kinda)
The guy was nice but it was like he was searching in my eyes the whole time trying to find something. He asked me to move in with him after 15 minutes and then confessed his "falling in love with me" after 30. Ever sense I have received messages in my inbox with more declarations of love and if I don't respond to him in his timeframe, he gets sad and sends even more messages. Thankfully he doesnt have my real email or anything- it is all through the site I met him through. He also doesn't know my last name or that much about me so the chances he can find me on face-stalk or whatever are very low!

YAY to online dating.....where all the winners are!

2 comments:

Unknown said...

WOW! That is so creepy! I hope you sleep with a baseball bat or taser or something. So many sicko's out there. You are a brave girl. You make all of my ex's seem like a walk in the park.

KKing said...

glad i can help! :P
haha